Posted by: HSP Woman on: August 12, 2007
I am very excited about reading my latest book purchase.
Here it lies on my desk — shiny, fresh, and seductive. It wants me to devour it, and the feeling is mutual. However, these projects require some prep on my part. I psych myself up for the adventure. I find a new pen and a clean notebook. Highlighters in a rainbow of colors are a plus!
Nevertheless, the second it arrived, I gently breezed through each gem of a page. The bowels of the book felt cool against my hot palm as it disappeared between the heavy, inflexible covers. I secretly enjoy the pressure on my hand when it’s pressed hard between hefty books.
Visually, I was stimulated, too. I saw paragraphs, pages, chapters, glimpses of charts, and an appendix full of very significant topics related to anxiety and panic.
If there is a traditional therapy out there, I’ve tried it. I’ve tried Life Coaching. I’ve tried herbs and other supplements. I’ve tried homeopathy. I’ve been to an iridologist. I’ve tried 5 different religious groups. I’ve seen a shaman for energetic healing. I’ve listened to hundreds of tapes, and I’ve read hundreds of books.
But, there is one book that I haven’t mastered. After a two-hour search on the background of this book, I am convinced it is one more thing I must try before I say “Nothing Works.”
This approach seems like it will fit me like a glove. I think it’s geared for someone just like me:
I need so much help now as I make the final transition to be medication-free. It’s frightening. No, it’s terrifying to believe I’m on my own.
I will dive into this book soon, and I promise to post about what I learn. I want to share it with all the other “someones” out there who are just like me.
And, by the way, the experts say this theory — ACT — is applicable for everyone who has been labeled “mentally ill.” Its skills help people during psychotic episodes, with hallucinations, visions… And it works equally for very angry people, for depressed people, people on meds, and for people who decide to not be on meds. It’s a very non-judgmental therapy.
Now, I proudly introduce Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Anxiety Disorders, by Georg H. Eifert, Ph.D., and John P. Forsyth, Ph.D.
The book’s contents:
PART I: UNDERSTANDING ANXIETY DISORDERS
What Is ACT?
Overview of Anxiety Disorders
Cognitive Behavioral Views and Treatments of Anxiety Disorders
PART II: HOW ACT REFRAMES THE ANXIETY DIMENSION
Controlling Anxiety Is the Problem, Not a Solution
Balancing Acceptance and Change
PART III: ACT TREATMENT OF ANXIETY
Core Treatment Components and Therapist Skills
Psychoeducation and Treatment Orientation
Creating an Acceptance Context for Treatment
Acceptance and Valued Living as Alternatives to Managing Anxiety
Creating Flexible Patterns of Behavior Through Value-Guided Exposure
Staying Committed to Valued Directions and Action
Practical Challenges and Future Directions
A Letter from the Author:
John P. Forsyth, Ph.D.
Associate Professor of Psychology
Faculty Director, Anxiety Disorders Research Program
April 11, 2006
This professional book was a labor of love.
The book presents a down to earth practical overview of a new approach — based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (or ACT, pronounced as a single word) — for therapists working with persons who are stuck and struggling with anxiety-related problems. It is a treatment guide of sorts, with session-by-session guidelines, activities, worksheets, and includes a CD with related exercises, forms, and worksheets. We tried to make the book accessible to therapists and even the general public. So, you won’t find much psychobabble or jargon in the book.
This work is based on emerging basic and applied research suggesting that the core of human suffering has much to do with excessive thought and emotion regulation applied where it does not work and where it is largely unnecessary. This research base is showing that excessive emotion regulation, or experiential avoidance, is a core process that turns normal fear and anxiety (including other forms of psychological and emotional pain) into life shattering clinical problems.
The book teaches therapists working with anxious persons how to foster acceptance and change as vital alternatives to anxiety management and control. It teaches skills designed to help clients learn to drop the rope in their tug of war with anxiety and fear, unpleasant thoughts, worries, etc. and to do what they truly care about.
Instead of feeling better before living better, the ACT approach helps clients get on with living better. When they do, we think they will feel and think better too.
The alternative is to learn to be with thoughts as thoughts, feelings and feelings, memories as memories, and to take them with you in directions you want to go.
Clients learn where their evaluative mind has kept them stuck and how to bring mindful acceptance and compassion to their thoughts, feelings, painful memories, etc. and to exert control where they have it — in the actions they take in directions that they deeply value. The prize here is a life and learning how not to let anxiety, fear, and worry stand in the way of that life.
This book is very much about fostering experiential and psychological flexibility in order to make this happen.
We hope that it makes a difference in your life and those with whom you have contact.
If you are a member of the public you might especially benefit by going there to join a list serve called “ACT_for_the_Public“. That listserve is a kind of online support group of readers and professionals who can help you with the concepts in popular ACT books like Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life and ACT on Life, Not on Anger. It is not a substitute for therapy but it is a help when you get stuck with the ideas in ACT. The archive of messages is a great help to those new to the work.
Again, thank you, and we hope our work is useful to you. Let us know if there is a way we can be of help.
- John P. Forsyth, Ph.D.
Sounds worthy of some more investigation, no? If you’d like to read more about this book, click here. I think it may lead to some wonderful and insightful discussions!
I have that on my bookshelf along with numerous other great, unread books, so I’ll be curious to read what you think of it.
Hi, Individual Voice
So far so good. Really good, in fact! I’m about 60 pages in, and I love it. VERY fresh perspective. The writing is a bit on the technical side (written for clinicians), but it’s doable when I read carefully. I am taking a lot of notes. I am very happy with it. I’ve made a few major breakthroughs already.
You would appreciate it, I’m sure. I am so glad I invested in this text!
Hi there
I found this website/blog randomly after searching about anxiety with the word acceptance…first I found something about a type of therapy called ACT, then I stumbled on here.
The reason I’m posting is because I myself have social anxiety and after trying CBT for a bit came across a very interesting article about a man who overcame social anxiety himself after 10+ years of different methods, including he says all western and many eastern methods. Anyway his treatment that he now gives for social anxiety (and many other ‘mental illeness’ too, he runs the largest Psychology in China) is based around the concept of acceptance rather than controlling, which seems ACT is too. I really do believe this really is the ‘key’ or correct way that these ‘illnesses’ should be handled, it seems trying to suppress what was once normal makes these feelings and thoughts grow into the levels that cause them to become so destroying.
Anyway, I might be wrong here but it seems you personally have panic disorder ? i’m wondering because I read that you tried all methods and nothing for you has worked..well hopefully this book is helping you alot but have u ever tried something called Panic Away ? It looked to me like just another waste of time but after looking at it a little more closely it looks like its based around the idea that panic attacks come from ‘fearing fear’, or more specifically fearing the thoughts and feelings that lead to a panic attack.
Just like ACT, its about observing the thoughts rather than pushing them away and causing more tension and anxiety. It seems a lot of people have stopped their panic attacks using it. Anyway i’m sorry if what i’ve typed read like an absolute mess, i’m tired but I just felt I had to say something if it could possibly help you. I just thought that something that is tailored for panic attacks may speed up your progress over just having a book for general illnesses. Take care
Welcome, Dan
I did order “Panic Away.” It has a great thesis, but I had seen it before in Claire Weekes’ books. I agree with all my heart that the concept of acceptance is so important to total freedom from panic.
You say you have social anxiety? I have been curious for a while about whether I have social phobia, too. I am really not clear about the differences. You must have panic attacks, too? You panic when you feel you are being observed? Judged? Evaluated? I do.
I’d love to hear more about your challenges.
But absolutely I have a fear of fear. Absolutely.
Thanks for stopping by. I tried to respond to your comment ages ago but I lost it when the power failed. Then the holidays happened. But, here I am now, and I thank you for caring enough to share.
Greetings all! I just happened to stumble on this page and thought to weigh in with a kind word of thanks to those of you who showed some interest in ACT and in our book. As you might guess, I’m one of the authors of the ACT for Anxiety Disorders book. ACT is something quite different than just about anything I had ever come across in my personal and professional life. It can be difficult going at first, in part, because the ideas and skills run against the grain of just about everything we’ve be taught to do about our pain since kindergarten. So, we need to bring some kindness and patience to the work as we learn to apply the skills to our own lives.
I just wanted to mention that we recently followed up this book with a revamped and down to earth book for a general audience. It just came out — The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Anxiety: A Guide to Breaking Free from Anxiety, Phobias, and Worry Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. The workbook is much expanded from the original professional book that is mentioned here, and includes many more exercises and an audio CD with mindfulness and acceptance exercises. Anyway, not meant to be a plug for the book, but thought that some folks might want to know.
I’ve also started a blog too for those that might be interested in ACT and its relation to anxiety, fear, stress, and other forms of human pain. Here is the link:
http://mindfulnessandanxiety.blogspot.com/
Wishing you all vitality.
With a Kind Heart, -john
Dear John,
How wonderful of you to post this message and direct people to your new blog. I really appreciate your book. And, I look forward to following your blog.
Thanks!
Thanks for the warm welcome. It is nice to see such openness.
I just wanted to alert everyone that my blog subdomain was just changed. It is now http://mindfulness-and-anxiety.blogspot.com/ (added hyphens).
I hope it will be useful to some. I will follow the page here too.
My Best -john
Thanks for the update, John
Your blog will be of great help to people like me. I am convinced ACT is the key to my freedom.
Thanks for the kind words. I do hope that some of what I share is of use to someone. Honestly, I am a bit new at the blogging thing.
It is nice to hear that ACT is working for you and that is resonates with you. I know that I’ve heard many people tell me that they just need to learn how to accept their anxieties, but many more have a hard time doing that. They think that acceptance is passive resignation, giving up or giving in, being a loser or a patsy. This is passive acceptance and not helpful. In fact, it can be hurtful because it so easily leads to giving up, not just with anxiety but with living.
ACT helps people learn vital acceptance, the kind of acceptance that defuses the fuel that leads us to struggle with our hurts. In a way, we learn to live out the serenity creed. People love that creed, but get frustrated with it because they don’t know what to accept and let be and what to change. As you know, ACT teaches this important distinction in an experiential way.
Life is calling us to find a way to live well, even with emotional pain that shows up now and then as we take steps in directions that we care about. The worst kind of suffering is not stop living at all and to spend our precious time on this earth fighting a war with ourselves that need not be fought in order to live out our dreams. That struggle, interestingly, does not work very well as a long term solution, takes up enormous time and energy, and tends to pull all of us out of our lives. That’s the kind of suffering that ACT attempts to undermine.
One thing about ACT… Many people find that it resonates with them at a deep level once they get into the work and begin to put the skills into practice. I’d just say to hold ACT and most other thoughts lightly as you move forward into the kind of life that you wish to live out.
ACT may be the key to your freedom, but sometimes you’ll get stuck just like the rest of us. It is then that you’ll need to be kind with yourself because your mind will likely be screaming between your ears ” You see, this stuff isn’t the key.” At those times, we all need to practice patience and kindness.
When I find my mind replaying the same old and tiresome reruns and threatening to feed me the same old stuff that I know tends to keep me stuck, I just notice the thoughts, thank my mind for them, and then redirect my attention to what I want to do, right them, right now. That doing is something I know I have control over, not what my mind and body may do from time to time.
Wish You and Others A Vital Day
-john
Hi John,
You write:
Life is calling us to find a way to live well, even with emotional pain that shows up now and then as we take steps in directions that we care about.
Well said.
This point is crucial to me, I believe.
My fear of panic has been keeping me safe and comfortable in my house. I’ve given up trying to get outside because I am very much avoiding feeling uncomfortable.
The problem lies here: My so-called comfortable house is no longer comfortable. I yearn to engage in LIFE — to do and feel all those things that matter to me.
I am getting sicker and sicker the longer I lock myself inside.
I must engage at least a little bit. I just cannot keep on the same path by hiding out at home.
Now, if I can only just accept feeling uncomfortable.
I’ve ordered your new book, by the way. I look forward to reading it.
I have just started working on The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Anxiety. Today I began the second section but have come up against an obstacle. In the second paragraph the letters WAF are used in reference to obstacles but nowhere does it say what WAF stands for. Its used frequently after that and I’m having a lot of trouble concentrating as I keep falling back to wondering what that stands for. Can anyone clarify this for me?
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Hi HSP Woman,
Good to see you back. I just joined the ACT online group out of curiosity. I fit into all the indicators for who the book might be good for except DBT did not work for me. But I don’t know if the group I joined was any good or not. It simply was not a fit for me. In any case I’m curious to be a “lurker” in the online group and see if there is anything to good to learn. And I will be looking forward to what you learn as you begin to read–I hope it’s as satisfying as you hope it will be.